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Is The Word “Impossible” Shattering Your Dreams?

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At some point in our lives, almost every one of us have dreamed of being somebody special. How many times have you dreamed of being rich, or successful, or perfectly balanced in every area of our life?

Many of us have big dreams and great aspirations. I do. Do you?

Unfortunately, for many, dreams often remain just that – dreams.

Why?  Because they don’t ACT on their dreams.

So, what causes some of us to not take action?

Are we afraid to try and fail?  Are we afraid to try and succeed?

Quote H FordOr … do we doubt our ability or our capability?  Are there voices around us, or inside us telling us that our dream is impossible?

Because, if we believe it’s ‘impossible’, then it is.

To actually ACHIEVE your Dream you have to BELIEVE that it is POSSIBLE!

The word “impossible” is the biggest obstacle to ever achieving our dreams.

In fact, thinking our dream is “impossible” shatters our dream from EVER becoming reality.

Thank God not everyone thinks like that, or we would still be living without electricity, telephones, airplanes, space exploration, air conditioning, automobiles … you get the idea.

When the inventor dreamed of each of those inventions, everyone else thought it was impossible at the time. But the inventor didn’t give up on their dream. They took action. And with perseverance, determination, and unwavering vision, he or she was able to actually accomplish their “dreams.” And because of others who believe their dreams are POSSIBLE, we continue to be amazed daily with new innovations, inventions, and redesigns that change how we do almost everything.

Anything is Possible – if you Believe and take Action

So, you’re probably wondering how you can achieve your dream?

First, Know Your Dream. You must have a crystal clear vision of what it is. And Believe it with every fiber of your being. Know in your heart and mind that it is possible for you.

its possible byrne 2Then, Picture It. See it. Smell it. Taste it.  What does it feel like? See yourself living in that dream and see how others around you are also benefiting from you living your dream. Some people find it helpful to put together a vision board. A physical collage of pictures of your actual dreams – that car, that house, your child graduating from college, the vacation you’ve always wanted, the actual balance in your checking account.  Whatever it is, look at it several times a day and BELIEVE It Is POSSIBLE.

Then, Put a Plan Together to make it happen.  Will you start a new business, expand the one you currently have, get a better paying job, start a home business to generate a second income?  Figure out what it is that you need to do to get you to your dream.  Surround yourself with folks who are already where you want to be. They can help you take your life to the next level and help you put your plan together and then keep you on track to success.

Finally, Take MASSIVE Action. Knowing your dream and seeing it clearly isn’t enough. Neither will all the planning and strategy development.  You HAVE to Work at it – Relentlessly and with Determination and Perseverance.

its-possible-les brownWithout the Action – A dream is just a dream.

Everyone can live their dream!

The only thing stopping you is you!

I would love to help you live your dream. 

 

IT’S POSSIBLE. BELIEVE IT AND YOU CAN ACHIEVE IT.

 

I Believe in You!

 

Let me coach you to success.

 

Living my dream,

Lori

 

 

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How Big Is Your Dream?

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I’ve been reading How Successful People Think by John Maxwell, and today’s chapter was talking about being a Possibility Thinker.  

It gave me some incredible insight into how my thought processes reflect not only my belief in my dreams, but also got me thinking about the size of the dreams that I choose. 

So I asked myself … How Big Is My Dream?

aim high michaelangeloTo be a true Possibility Thinker, I have to push past the naysayers, the pessimists, the “scaredy-cats,” and all the versions of them that run through my own mind. Then set my eyes and my mind on my dream and imagine all the possibilities. 

The caveat to this, is that what I’m dreaming should – at least to the better part of the “normal” population – seem unreachable.  Because what’s the point of dreaming something that I am pretty darn sure that I can achieve? 

Is that really even a “dream”?

I don’t think so.

To me, a dream needs to be “out there” and a little “pie in the sky” and maybe even considered downright impossible. (Giving my inner scaredy-cat a kick with this one.)  John Maxwell says,

“When you believe in the possibilities, you put yourself in a position to achieve them,”

So, if that’s true …

Why would I want a mediocre dream?  Isn’t it in my best interests to be dreaming of something incredible, something significant, something almost unattainable?  

Dream Big NowMediocre won’t give me passion. Mediocre won’t challenge me to do more than I’ve done before. Mediocre won’t set me apart from the crowd. 

Who the heck wants Mediocre ????

Give me Passion. Give me a Challenge. Give me the Power of an incredible dream that will fuel my days into action and generate change and ultimate success. 

As Einstein said,

“The person with big dreams is more powerful than the one with all the facts.”

So today I want to challenge you to do what I did earlier today. Take a good hard look at your dream and ask yourself:

  • Is this something that I know I can achieve because I’ve done it before?
  • Is this something that I believe I can achieve it because it’s already in the works?

dream big 300If you answered “yes” to these questions – you need to upscale your dream!  

Then ask yourself:

  • Is this something that gets me excited to start my day every day?
  • Is this something that requires me to do more and be more than I’ve ever done or been before?

If you answered “no” to these questions – you need to re-evaluate your dream. If you want to answer “yes” to those two questions, you need to find a dream that you are passionate about. Find something you love and that gives you joy and a purpose.

Having a really BIG dream gives you power. It gives you excitement and it energizes your life.

I don’t believe I would be motivated to live my dream, if it didn’t do all of that for me.  

Could you?

I’d love to hear what you think about this.

Living my dream,

Lori

 

Let me coach you to your biggest dreams.

 

 

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11 Questions To Kickstart Your Dream

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I’ve been talking about Living Your Dream for a while now and it occurred to me that you may need some help to actually discover and pinpoint exactly what your dream is.

So let’s go through 11 questions to help you not only realize your dream – but also give it a kickstart to get you moving toward what you really want.

The best way to begin is to write down the dreams that you have.

So grab a piece of paper and a pen – or open up a notepad on your device of choice – and start listing everything that you can imagine that you would really want. In my coaching classes, I recommend the Goal Setting Workshop by Tony Robbins which walks you through finding your goals in incredible detail.  If you’ve never done this exercise before – it’s invaluable.

Now that you have your goals in front of you – you’re ready to really begin to hone in and focus on your DREAM.

Ask yourself each of these 11 questions:

BeWhoGodMeant1. What’s your highest priority in this lifetime?
What’s most important for you to experience, explore or embrace this time around? Until you answer this question, your life goals will be off purpose. If you are not aligned with your inner passion, your intentions will lack the power to attract the people and situations necessary to become a reality. Get clued into what gives you true joy. What activities turned you on as a child? What are your hobbies now?

When your goals are aligned with your soul’s purpose, you will be automatically be drawn and guided toward your target. When you truly know and take ownership your talents and calling, assistance will flow to you from every earthly and heavenly source.

2. Is this your dream, or someone else’s?
Are your goals your own choice, or what others think you should strive for? As John Maxwell says in his book, Put Your Dream To The Test, “you can’t rent a dream from someone else. It has to be yours.” You need to have a dream that you will take ownership of, that you will care for, that you will engage in fully. Do you want to look back in your old age and wish you had followed your passion? Will you regret having “played it safe?” Maybe you feel it is selfish to go after your own dream. Ask yourself, what joy can you give to others if you haven’t given it to yourself first?

You need to listen to your heart in order to follow your dream. Only then can you fulfill your destiny and have your dream become reality.

believe in what you want so much 2503. Do you really, really want this dream?
Do you jump out of bed every morning excited to pursue your vision? Or is it a lukewarm dream you chase because it sounds meaningful? Are you passionate about this dream? Are you willing to do almost anything to achieve it?  Will you feel incomplete or unsatisfied until you finally have your dream?

Only the Real McCoy will generate enough energy to manifest itself in your life.

4. Are you settling for less?
Are you resigned to accepting less than your full share of love, health and success this lifetime? Have you been compromising, belittling or sacrificing your dream? Don’t!

Anything short of living your true passions will never make you happy. Don’t just live your life. LIVE it! Do you want to arrive at the Pearly Gates with the regret of not marrying that one captivating person, starting that fun business, or seeing that exotic part of the world you always wanted to visit?

5. Is your dream actually just part of another dream?
We’re looking for the big dreams here. So evaluate this: Is your dream the ultimate end in itself, or merely a piece of your ultimate dream? Isn’t it really a certain amount of money you want to make – not just that new car? Get to the heart of your dream. Isn’t it really a renewed sense of self-worth you desire, rather than the new car or house to impress the family and neighbors? And isn’t it really happiness you want, rather than the picture-perfect mate, job or body?

Focus on exactly the dream environment you want to create, not just the physical form that may – or may not – bring you that experience.

picture yourself Nightengale 26. What will you feel like when you reach your dream?
Personal passion fuels a vision. Dive into the thrill and exhilaration of that feeling of living your dream. Every moment you can, drink in the joy of having your dream. The Hawaiian Kahuna say, “Where your creative attention flows, so flows your life.” Is your daily attention feeding your dream? Are you doing something each and every day to fuel that dream?

It’s high time you manifested your aspirations. Dynamic, satisfying creations are nurtured with love and cared for like a flower in a garden.

7. How will you benefit from getting your dream?
Be very specific about the benefits you’ll receive from achieving your vision. Write down these pluses so they will sink in as motivators. What exactly would happen if you made a lot of money doing something you love? How would you approach your life differently if you allowed people to love and support you? What would you do with more vitality and health?

8. What steps can you take today toward your dream?
Don’t wait any longer. Set up supports and systems around you to instantly translate your intentions into action. Jump on every opportunity that is in line with your purpose and vision.
Keep the momentum going. No matter how hectic life gets, pledge to take at least one action a day. Even the smallest actions – such as jotting down a new idea, reading a single page, or making one phone call – can start to add up.

actionAre there smaller projects that lead to your larger dream that can give you pleasure in the meantime? If the dream is to run a marathon, train for a local fun-run first. And find a way to measure your progress. Track those little wins by writing in a journal or telling a friend. Start a blog and post your successes and achievements that will inspire others.

If you’re still a little stuck on finding your dream, these next few questions may help.

9. Are you telling yourself: “I can’t have my dream?”
Many people don’t believe they can live their dream. That mindset has to change in order to achieve your dream. Evaluate what has you believing you can’t make a living doing what they love, or what it is that is making you feel as if you don’t deserve your dream.

Challenge those assumptions – they will never allow you to ever reach your dreams!  Too often, people avoid the pain of feeling they can’t have their dream, or they keep their dream so buried they can’t remember ever having a dream. It’s time to do some digging and unearth those dreams.

Everyone has a dream! And everyone is destined to fulfill that purpose. Don’t wait any longer.

10. Are you afraid of getting your dream?
Actually getting your dream can be really frightening! Of course, realizing your dream is only threatening to those assumptions that you have right now.  As you work on changing your mindset, you will not fear what your dream will bring. It’s your current self and the life you know and feel comfortable in that has gotten you to where you are right now. If you want to get somewhere else – to something more – you need to use different thinking than you have been.

Change is scary. Find a way to move through the energy of fear. The only way to avoid feeling fear is to avoid living altogether! And that kind of thinking won’t help you to start living your dream.

The final question is the most important of all.

11. Do you really need to accomplish your dream?
How bad do you really want this? I mean really – how bad do you want this? Re-evaluate your answers to question number 3. Tweak them. Envision them. Feel them. Then take action. Do something with what you’ve learned here.

Here’s your challenge for today:

Write your dreams down and read them every morning and every night. Create a dream board and put up photos of what your dreams look like. Do something today – and then each and every day – that will move you closer to your dream.

And never, never, never give up.

You can do this!  I believe in you.

Living my Dream,

Lori

 

I’d be glad to help you find and live your dream. Contact me for your free coaching session today.

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Thirty Minutes Will Save Your Dream

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If you’ve got a dream you’re intent on pursuing, chances are you’re going to bog down at some point.

That’s just the way dreams are.

But, don’t despair!

These moments are actually good for your dream, because they force you to stop and rethink your approach if you want to continue.

That’s the only way you can find the footing to continue, and in that process, you’re forced to learn and grow.

I’ve found a way to head off many of those “stalls” … I visualize.

visualizeAnd I set aside 30 minutes with no interruptions every day to visualize my dream.

I’ve found that nothing can turn my mind around as effectively as visualizing.

Visualizing your dream can create hope were there was none, clarity in a space of confusion, and immeasurable inspiration.

Our minds and the power we have to to mentally visualize our own reality has been compared to a gold mine. Earl Nightengale says that visualizing will connect us with deep inner truths that most of us simply can’t tap into consciously.

“Picture yourself in your minds eye as having already achieved this goal. See yourself doing the things you’ll be doing when you’ve reached your goal.”

So basically, visualizing is digging deep into our heart and mind so that we can look clearly at what we want. See it. Feel it. Taste it. What does it smell like? Look at how it is impacting your life and those around you.  

It takes a little practice to really do this. Our minds have been taught to focus on “reality” and if you’re anything like me and most of the world, it may take some time for you to get comfortable with thinking and visualizing what seems impossible.

Visualize the ImpossibleBut it’s worth the effort.

Because visualizing gives us permission to dream. We are able to vividly see ourselves living a different life, feeling the feelings, smelling the smells, and owning the power. We see a higher, truer aspect of ourselves, and in that instant, understand how unstoppable we really can be.

It lets us see ourselves leading a life of power and abundance and allows us to acknowledge that we really can do whatever we dream about. We are able to see how much impact we can have, and how much we can actually accomplish by pursuing our dream. 

You can truly begin to change your life by spending 30 minutes a day visualizing your dream.

As Earl Nightengale says, “We become what we think about.”

DreamItDoItDisney2 The way to make your dream a reality is to then take action. Dreaming alone will not bring you success.

So here’s the challenge for today.  Take 30 minutes today without any distractions and visualize your dream.

Then take an action step to make your dream a reality. Do this for the next 7 days. Then do it for another 7 days.

Evaluate what’s been happening over the past two weeks – Your life is getting better isn’t it ?  

I thought so …

Living my dream,

Lori

 

Need some help with your process?  Let me coach you to success.

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4 Steps To Creating A Better Future

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You want to begin living your dream, but you’re just not sure how to begin.

Here are four simple steps to begin creating a better future.

Step 1: Take inventory.

Creating a vision for yourself and your life first requires you to ask yourself “what it is that gives my life meaning, purpose, and joy?”

Look to your talents. Look to your abilities. What makes you smile the instant you think of doing it? It is not difficult to determine what your special ability, gift or interest is. Simply ask yourself: “What do I look forward to more than anything else in the world?”

whats your dreamStep 2: Tap into your imagination.

Now that you have decided to take action by creating a list of your talents, interests, and joy activities, it is time to form a vision around them.

You do this by doing what every child on earth has the power to do at will: Simply use your imagination to create your reality! Start dreaming of all of the ways in which you can spend your time doing what you love. Do not worry about making sense at this stage, just dream as if you were a child again.

Step 3: Set your goals.

Once you have decided what you want to do to create a better life for yourself by developing a vision, the next step is to set goals that will serve as stepping stones toward fulfillment of your vision.
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You can start setting these goals by asking yourself questions like: What do I want to accomplish in my life? What kind of legacy do I want to leave behind? What would I do if I had all of the money in the world? Make sure your short term goals are realistic and the rest – big! Be clear, meaningful, well defined, and make sure your goals EXCITE you!

Step 4: Enjoy the journey and pay attention.

As you begin each new day, always keep in mind everything that you have written down and envisioned for your better future. You may not have the means to immediately jump into your goals and plans. But, you can still start working towards a new reality by thinking of the outcomes and moving one step at a time toward your dream.

Of course you may still have to go to work in the job that you would rather not have, deal with some problems, and do the things you must do that you would rather not be doing, etc. However, your job now is to do them with vigor, with excitement, “knowing” that your future will change according to your vision as soon as you begin taking action.

I know you can do this.

Start Living Your Dream – Today!

Living my Dream,

Lori

 

My coaching program can help you discover and start living your dream. Contact me today for your free session.

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One Thing I Do Every Day

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We all have our daily routines, wake up, coffee, breakfast, etc. And I’m no different than everyone else when it comes to that. But there is one thing that I do each and every day, that is transforming my life.

No matter what else I have on my schedule, I try to help at least one person in a special way.

Sometimes, it’s as simple as reaching something off a shelf for someone in the grocery store, or sending a note of encouragement to friend or family member.

But, my favorite way to help is to is teach someone a new skill, or share a coaching session that takes us both to a new level.

It’s all about encouraging someone, each day, in some way, to make their life a little easier. It’s all about taking opportunities to brighten someone’s world, with a smile, or a small assist.

We all have challenges and obstacles. That’s a given. Helping others and giving them hope – especially where there isn’t any – is one of the biggest joys of my life.  It’s about making a difference.

Helping others is my dream. That’s what gets me up in the morning and it’s what keeps me going every day.

Let me help you live your dream.

I am.

Living my dream,

Lori

 

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What’s Your Dream?

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No matter where you go in the world, everyone has a dream.  I know you do too!

 

So, what’s your dream?

 

Live Your DreamsIt is big, small, scary, wonderful, private, or global?

Is it a dream that you have already started working on, building toward or creating for yourself?

Do you have a plan? Are you taking action?

Do you have the support to get you where you want to go?

 

My dream is to coach others find and build their dreams.

And every day I am living my dream.

 

I’d love to help you live your dream.

 

Let me help you start right now.

 

Living my dream,

 

Lori

 

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Little Known Secrets For Creating Your Dream Life

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Wouldn’t it be great if there was a guaranteed route to success?

Well … I can’t give you any guarantees, but here are a few secrets that I’ve learned. And, if you follow them … You Will Succeed.

Ok – here’s the first secret.

secret-of-your-success daily routine1. It’s Not Easy – But It Is Simple

You need to be able to follow directions. Not everyone can.

But if you are able and willing to listen to some training and then do what you are asked to do … You will succeed.

Here is secret number two.

2. Consistency Is Key

Following the directions includes doing the steps each and every day. It means taking action on what you know you are to do, even if you don’t feel like it, even if you’re tired, even if it’s not working – yet.

Because if you do what you are asked to do, consistently and with perseverance and determination … You will succeed.

Secret to ChangeSecret Number Three.

3. You Can Do This

I believe in you. But most importantly, you have to believe that you can do this, and trust the training and the guidance you will be given through my coaching. The only thing that can stop you from succeeding is you.  

If you can see your dream and have faith in yourself and in the process …

You will succeed.

And, here’s Secret Number Four.

4. You’re Not Alone

secret to success supportI’ll be there for you every step of the way.  I’ve tapped into incredible training, motivation, encouragement and events and will be sharing everything that I have learned to help you reach your goals.

What I found over the years is that everyone needs a little help at times, and that it usually helps fuel your success when you have an accountability partner. It helps to have someone who has been where you’ve been and can help point you in the right direction. It often works best when that person is impartial and outside your usual source of influence.

If you take advantage of what I can teach you … You will succeed.

Do you want to start living your dream?

Let me help you start right now.

 

Living my dream,

Lori

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4 Steps To Live Your Dream

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What is Your Dream?

I know some folks think that a “dream” has to be something huge – like being a millionaire or living in an ocean-view mansion, or driving a sports car.

But I believe that a dream just has to be something that you know will change your life if you achieve it.

My dream is to help others achieve their dreams.

So, what’s your dream?

Do you want to finally start that business you’ve always wanted? Do you want to add some direction and joy into your life? Do you want to discover your passion and finally start living your dream?

Whatever your dream is …  You Can Achieve It!

How-to-make-your-dream-becomes-trueWant to know how ???

Here are the 4 steps that I am taking and how I work each and every day to achieve my dream.

First …  You have to Have a Dream

I know, you’re thinking … of course.  But what this step means is that you have to really focus and pinpoint EXACTLY what it is that you want. You need to be able to see it, taste it, smell it. Take some time and visualize what your life would actually look like if you had that dream. How would you feel? What would you be doing differently? Get that picture in your mind and in your heart so clearly that you can step into it just by closing your eyes.

Step 2 – Set Your Goals

Now that you have your vision, you need to set specific milestones to achieve within a specific time frame. For example, if your dream is to be a stay-at-home parent, you need to have a specific date in mind when that will begin. You will need to have a specific monthly income in mind that will allow you to do this. Your goals need to SMART – Specific, Measurable, Attainable, Relevant and Time-Bound.

smart-goals smallStep 3 – Create A Plan

These are the actual steps that you will take to meet your goals. They also need to be very specific and include timelines and action items. This step is taking the proverbial elephant of your dream and your goals, and breaking them down into bite sized pieces. To follow the same example of becoming a stay-at-home parent, this step might include, brainstorm ideas for working from home to replace your current income, developing the steps necessary to begin that process, coming up with a budget, connecting with others who have done this successfully.

Step 4 – Take Massive Action

Commit to do whatever it takes each and every day to make your dream a reality. You work your plan to meet your goals. Always keep your dream and your vision in mind, you remind yourself why you are doing this. And work with others who will help motivate and encourage you as you pursue your dream and take steps each day to get you closer to your vision.

My dream is to help others live their dream.

I do this through coaching others on these 4 steps.

It’s my passion. And it gets me excited and motivated to get out of bed every day and do what it takes to help others.

And when I help others – it helps me.

I’d love to help you Live Your Dream!

 

To Living Our Dreams,

Lori